All the single ladies…

I recently watched "Love Hard" on Netflix. It was a light-hearted comedy and gives you a warm fuzzy feeling at the event. I can only imagine how many women would have watched it änd go like "awww ain't that sweet." To many of my single ladies out there, a show likes this offers them a glimpse of hope. It makes them think despite the countless douchebags you meet, there could be one knight among them.

I have been there and done that. Every dating experience that I had, made me wiser. It taught me to identify what I want, establish clearer boundaries, and made me more confident. I was still the same person ever, but what I had a mindset changed. "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over, expecting a different result." How many of us have been doing that in our dating life?

We want better results, we want to be treated better but still, end up making the same mistakes. As someone who is actively involved in empowering women, I do have a circle of single women in the mix. Many of them are successful, have great personalities, and are charming. But when it comes to their dating life, they never met got to meet the wrong guy. Some of them are jaded by their past experiences and have vowed to stop dating together.

At first, I used to agree with my womenfolk and think there is only the wrong kind of men around. But as I begin to explore and meet different people, I realize that we might be going about this all wrong. What if we change our mindset and just focus on being the better versions of ourselves? I feel like I have ventured into something that will be exciting and fun to talk about.

Keep watching out in this space for some new exciting developments headed your way!